Virtual Love – Is It Real?
These days, we're conducting so many of our relationships online that when we' re finally face-to-face with another person, we're often more. But for adults, real life is where the magic starts, writes Daisy Buchanan. I can understand how an entirely virtual relationship would be. Advantages of Virtual and Real Relationship, Disadvantages of Virtual Relationship Communication is done though – Online chat, text or.
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The Internet Is Real: How Relationships Online Are Just Like in Real Life
We all know how people behave terribly on the Internet. They write things they would never dare to say in person.
They struggle with bad thoughts too, but the difference is: Neither do they censor themselves online. What do we do?
Maybe we can start by understanding what the Internet really is: Not a collection of pictures and words on a computer screen, but a network of real people with real feelings.
I looked at the Internet as a mass dumping ground of information that I could get for free. But then I started to speak to it. I started to write to people online.
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And to my astonishment, many wrote back! Online interactions work just like real-world interactions. Just that the Internet allows us to connect instantly to billions of people who would otherwise have been out of reach. However, the term is probably a misnomer. Therefore, the question becomes — can one find love in a virtual world? And if so, are those feelings real or fantasy?
Virtual worlds are fantasy worlds. Some of them are more fantastical than others. Online gaming worlds such as World of Warcraft or Everquest let you become elves, dwarves, or even orcs and let you battle fiercesome creatures including dragons, griffons, and cute little bunnies with wickedly sharp teeth.
Not all virtual worlds are quite that fantastical, some are like HubPagesand they are centered around an activity e. Can one find love in a virtual world? Is Virtual Love Real? Electronic mail, instant messaging, and applications such as Facebook have increased the comfort level of talking with family, relatives, and friends online.
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As such applications have become more pervasive, the concept of exchanging textual messages with the people we know has become less foreign and more accepted. The next step then is to use this convenient form of communication to meet new people for the purpose of dating.
This is what online dating sites allow you do. The big advantage of dating online is that it gives you a large population of people to choose from. I wanted to be taken seriously, but no one else within the dating platform was taking the process, or myself, seriously. As I was about to throw in the towel and accept my future as a single cat lady, binge eating Chinese take-out, while engulfed in reality television… someone finally stood out to me.
Every other guy made flirty comments about my appearance, but he sarcastically avoided commenting on my looks as if to intentionally give me the opposite of what I wanted. He was different, witty and funny?
We watched House of Cards together…while Facetiming. It felt like a real relationship, minus the physical face-to-face interaction. It was amazing and it was miserable, all at the same time.
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My patience wore thin, my heart was beginning to break, and Dan was proving to be exactly what I feared — a sham. Can you guess what happened next? He removed me from social media, he blocked my number, and he vanished into thin air as if he never even existed.
After four months of daily communication and intimate bonding, Dan was capable of vanishing and made sure to do it before I beat him to the punch. I was going to leave him because he refused meet me; he chose to leave me because I wanted to meet him.
Seriously, the irony… facepalm.